Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Avoid Illegitimate Child with Condom

This article is written while my lovely wife and myself are still facing a hard reality of an end. 3 days ago, the doctor diagnosed that the fetus inside my wife’s womb is doing positively fine with normal heartbeat at this stage of time and we experience the joy clearly through the ultrasound device. 3 days later after the last visit, my wife complaint of pain and some bleeding and we went to see the doctor again. This time around, the doctor carried out the same procedure and we saw the same healthy fetus again but without the drum-beating signals from the heart. This means that she’s now facing a miscarriage. It’s hard to believe that the good news can only endure for short while.

But looking at the act of throwing away innocent babies by irresponsible couples in the news makes me feel so furious against their moronic act. Even animals make better mothers than these silent rippers. We know that it’s a shameful act to have babies before marriage in most religions, but when it already happens, the destiny of the little ones shouldn’t have ended like faeces in the dustbins, rivers or toilets raided by ants, mosquitoes or stray dogs or cats.

Speaking of guilty, don’t they feel restless when their newborn healthy little cute one is left somewhere unsecured or they themselves have to do the killing before throwing he/she away? This is so cruel. Nowadays, this act is so common now among teenagers even up to college or university students, an age where they can’t even support themselves before others. The occurrence of thrown infants cases might be higher than the one reported in national statistics.

With more and more pre-marriage sexual acts profoundly increase among this group of people, the government shouldn’t denied this but to educate the public on various measures to reduce thrown baby cases. Early education at grass roots is much better than putting allegations on the doers when things have happened. Promoting or educating condom usage in schools, mainstream TV channels or newspapers should no longer be a religious taboo because it is proven vital to reduce anak luar nikah.

So next time, when the guy is erected while the other one excitedly aroused, under an erotic mood, it shouldn’t be a question of shame rushing to the nearest 7 Eleven to buy a box of condoms. Looking at the bright side of its effectiveness to counteract bastard acts, buying and understanding proper usage of condom should be accepted commonly by everyone. Remember early prevention is still better than the feels of guilt and humiliation later.

Latest buang bayi case in TheStar:
Body of infant boy found

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

i prefer gov to relax the undang2 to allow pregnant lady to give birth

people need to change..accept prengancy outside marriage

not rumah pengasih

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Anonymous said...

sad to hear that. tabahkan diri k